Life of a Christian at University

In this post, I aim to discuss the life of a Christian at university; the difficulties, the witness, but also the joys and experiences that one will find. I have been at university for four years, doing a BA and then a MA at Winchester and it has been an experience! I have met many people, from all backgrounds, and I have become richer culturally speaking because of it. I have met people from different Christian backgrounds, agnostics, atheists and those of other religions. I have certainly learnt a lot from them all, and I thank God for such an experience. However, it has not been all plain sailing, and in this post I aim to address what it is like to be a Christian on campus and the difficulties we can face.

There are certainly a lot of pressures at university, to drink, to partake in sex before marriage and so forth. I was blessed by the fact that in my first year, my flatmates were completely understanding, and a few of them were Christians too. It was great going to the CU along with them, talking about God and encouraging each other, my non-Christian flatmates were also awesome, they never pressured me into doing anything and we had a lot of fun together. However, this isn’t always the case, and pressure can be tough to take, however, to take a stand for God is worth it, you realise you don’t need drink, sex or these things to make you happy or complete. In later blog posts I will discuss in more detail about the struggle with these individual items, particularly relationships. If you struggle with the pressure, then take it to the Lord in prayer, discuss it with him and talk to other Christians. Go to the CU for example and get involved, it is great to be around other Christians regardless of what background they have. In my first year, I had a great CU, great friends, and was greatly blessed, however, my case won’t be the same for all first year Christians. All I can say is that do not be discouraged, God is never far, he won’t let you go, his love never fails us! Once you have found yourself a great church that you feel at home at, whatever denomination (can even differ from the one you go to at home!), you will feel as though you have a home away from home!

Being a Christian on campus, means we have a great responsibility! We have a call to witness! Now this does not mean we go around forcing the gospel down people’s throats, dread to think what that would achieve! Our actions can speak louder than words, whether it is not swearing, or not going out to nightclubs, forgiving friends who have failed us, or to simply show love even in the darkest times, people notice these things and wonder why are they different? I have had many a good conversation with people about the Gospel, and I have hardly ever started any conversations myself! People are curious, and that is great, you don’t have to be going round saying “Jesus loves you” every five minutes, just show them by how you act. My biggest failing was that I never got involved in the CU properly, I attended events in my first year, but started to decline my attendances from 2nd year onwards, and it is shameful that I did. CU’s are called to evangelise, and have a great impact at University, whether its talking about the gospel or giving people tea and coffee on a Wednesday night to people who had been clubbing. The love shown at CU’s has been a great encouragement to me, and the desire for God never ceases to amaze. I have even had some amazing personal experiences, and I can only recommend them to people of all different denominations.

Being a Christian means that we are different from other students, but that doesn’t mean we keep ourselves in our little bubble and never talk to others! Many of my friends over the four years have been non-Christians and they have helped me as I have helped them. Do not feel as though you can only be friends with Christians, firstly it’s a bad witness, secondly you can learn so much from them, and learn more about human beings in general. University certainly moulded me as a person, I became more confident, I became crazier! Being at University moulded my faith; I began to trust God more and more. At uni, you will go through pain and hardship, I won’t make it sound like a fairy-tale, it isn’t. Do not however, be scared of it, God may call you to uni, he may not have, but if he has, take the challenge and be that light. Trust in the Lord, and if you wander, the Lord will bring you back, remember through the trials and temptations that he is standing next to you. Lean on him, let him carry you! I wish I had more and more when I look back. I messed up big time, and made some huge errors. We aren’t perfect, but God always brings us back, and that is just wonderful news.

Do not go to university expecting to find your one true love. In some ways, I thought I would, I was naïve in that. I will discuss relationships in more detail in the future as it needs an entire post dedicated to it, but I made mistakes, and it wasn’t good for my spiritual walk with Christ. Now you may find the perfect partner, that Christian girl or guy who is fantastic, many of my friends have, and I am really happy for them, but it isn’t guaranteed. Even though I tried, I have never had a Christian relationship, but God will put someone into our lives when we and that person are both ready. There is no rush, focus on the kingdom, and the people around you, and see what happens.

Another bit of advice would be about politics. Be careful! University is all about politics, it seems you have to either be really left wing or right wing, maybe that’s just me being sceptical, but don’t get drawn into needless political debates. It won’t solve anything, and will end up with people getting really angry and annoyed. I’m not saying do not get involved with politics, I truly believe that Christians should get involved as much as they can. What I suggest is to avoid all the petty arguments and hate. Learn to understand other points of view and respect others. Basically follow the example set by Jesus, as in all things!

I recommend that you should find a place to meditate.  A place where you feel at ease, where you feel inspired, or just a place that is quiet.  For me Winchester Cathedral was a fantastic place to go to, whether during the day or night.  I always found it easier to talk to God there, I could focus my mind better on him.  Of course God meets with us everywhere, and there is nothing special with the Cathedral, but places such as these can just help us focus, and allow us to clear our minds and can be a real blessing.

So in conclusion, university is a big step and change in one’s life, and it isn’t necessary easy. There will certainly be ups and downs, but is it worth it? For me personally, it was. It helped me build up my confidence, meet other people and learn so many lessons that I don’t think I would have learned anywhere else. University however, is not the be all and end all, you should not feel forced to go or feel it’s what everyone does so you should to. The life at university is not for everyone and no one should ever be ashamed for not going. However if you do go, then pray, and walk with the Lord, and who knows what might happen!

Brexit: PANIC!! Hang on lets think about this!

It’s been quite a week hasn’t it? The nation has been kicked out of the Euros, oh and we also voted to leave the European Union. Our Prime Minister has resigned and the Opposition appear to be in turmoil. So as a Christian and as a ‘leftie’ I wanted to give my thoughts on what has happened, and the future that our nation now faces. I do hope this post is interesting, if you disagree, that’s fine, if it encourages you to think more on the issues, then fantastic!

Thoughts on the result!

I voted to Remain in the EU on Thursday. I honestly felt that we were, as a nation, better off in the EU. It protected Christians more than the British government would, and I disagree with nationalism, however the nation decided otherwise. There is a lot of bitterness of both sides still, blame is chucked everywhere and anger is our friend it would seem. After the result, I was bitter and at the time of writing this, am still going through a healing process. I constantly come to God in prayer and read the bible and ask God, why your people would want to vote to leave the EU. Slowly, but surely I am healing, I am finding the answers by listening to people, hearing their reasons. This is an atmosphere where Christians can shine; we need to disagree well, forgive, and not hold it against those who voted the other way, especially our brothers and sisters in Christ.

Forgive and Understand!

As a Remain voter, I can say that I do acknowledge certain arguments by the leave campaign. The EU is corrupt, it is badly led and it has many faults. It hasn’t shown itself to be very wise and can be problematic sometimes. By acknowledging the other sides views, by trying to understand them, we can respect them, and by respecting them, we can discuss, and with discussion, we can learn to disagree well, and unite together for the good of the country.

If I analyse why the Remain campaign lost, I would say that the main reason we failed to convince the electorate was due to the fact of just not listening. The public figures focused their attention on Boris Johnson and Farage, rather than the people, who got fed up with it all. Do I think the Remain camp can be accused of ‘Project Fear’? No I think they stated things as they saw it, as I see it, but it became an easy target for the Leave side that classed it as Project Fear, and therefore handed them propaganda on a plate. I think many students, including me, went into the campaign with our views, our opinions and classed everyone else who thought otherwise as wrong. I don’t think we properly listened to people; anyone who thought otherwise was instantly labelled ‘bigot’ or ‘racist’, etc. This was a problem and we must learn for the future to listen to people, address their problems and stop being all high and mighty.

Political Upheaval?

We have seen in recent days, the economy has fallen, our political system seems to be in turmoil. It’s crazy that such a decision by the electorate has caused such chaos. As a person with centre-left views, it won’t surprise you that I welcome this turmoil in the Labour party, I want a leader who can unite the party, MPs and members and can lead the party into the next election with a chance of winning, and provide a credible opposition, to hold the government to account. Corbyn, who was undoubtedly a nice fellow, had views I disagreed with and I could never had voted for a party with him in charge and ultimately he is a bad leader.   The Conservative party has also been in chaos, and are undergoing an election for their own leader, our next Prime Minister. As Christians, it’s our job to pray for leadership for both parties, even when we disagree with them, we must pray that they make decisions that help people, the poor, the needy and ultimately glorify God. We must pray for leadership for all parties. The main issue is, for Christians it doesn’t ultimately matter which party we support, we should always pray for them and their decisions. We have our political tribes, places where we can shine individually, but we all share one vision, and one kingdom, and that is the most important thing. Pray for all parties, for those you disagree with; you don’t know who God will use!

Rise of Hate?

According to recent media stories, there has been a rise in hate crime, people being shouted at, mocked and bullied for being a different nationality than that of English. Whilst these may be isolated incidents, how sad this is! Brothers and sisters, this attitude is something we condemn. We must acknowledge that both campaigns were on many occasions, fuelled by hatred and anger, and this still lingers in people. We must respond to this with love, love immigrants, those scared, those from our European neighbours, those fleeing from war-torn countries. Jesus does not care about whether or not someone is English, British or European (Galatians 3:28) but for their soul and wellbeing, so whether you think the EU is good or not, that should not let you be drawn in to the hate that is spreading. This surge of hate is sad, and let us as a united church stand against this, regardless of our EU stance, leave and remain campaigners can stand together.

The Future

The future, what does it hold? Are we to fear, are we to worry? The answer is simply no. We can use the perhaps over-used cliché, ‘God is in control’, which although isn’t wrong, is not always the right thing to say. It can give us an excuse to sit back on our laurels, rather than living out our faith in the world.

What we do need is a change; we need the outpouring of the Holy Spirit, in the church. We need to be filled, we need to be baptised in the spirit, be renewed. We need to desire the greater gifts, love, peace, joy, but also beware of falling into the trap of negating or denying the other gifts of the Holy Spirit (miracles do happen!). We need to long for God in a way we have not done for a long time. We may look out into the world and sigh at all the pain and hatred, but change can only happen, if we are first on fire for God. We have to burn bright, and to do this, we need the Lord!

The next few years may be turbulent, they may be tough, who on earth (except God) knows but we have to work together to help the poor and needy. We need to put our trust in God; He will lead us. We should certainly live out our faith more. I feel the referendum has exposed some flaws in the church, and my call, I believe Gods call, is that we become more unified, but also live out our faith, love, care and forgive.   Thinking on this, this could be the Church’s time. Hate and extreme anger is on the rise. I don’t believe that Christians voted with this hate in mind, but on the corruption of the EU. The church now must shine, to love, to fight for the rights of the poor, to live out the gospel and to follow the example of Jesus. Who knows, even for such a person like me, this could actually turn out to be a blessing.