Do you ever feel that sometimes church is a number game? I often get the question, ‘How big is your church?’ As if it’s the most important question going. Sometimes I just want to answer ‘Why does it matter?’ or ‘How big is God?’ But it is always asked and one you just have to answer politely and accurately. Why? Because even if we hate to say we come from a small church or whatever, it is in fact the truth.
Big Church vs Small church
Do you ever feel as though we are in a competition? Do you feel as though big churches like to think they triumph over the smaller churches? Or are you ashamed of your little church? If you come from a small church then you know where I am coming from, sometimes we feel that we are looked down upon, or that we aren’t blessed like our brothers and sisters. We feel as though numbers matter.
Numbers do not matter.
Controversial statement perhaps. I can imagine some of you reading this are thinking, ‘Doesn’t this guy wanna see people saved or what?’ The answer to that question is yes, a thousand times yes! But that being said, a church should not count its blessings by its headcount. Sometimes, the most faithful churches are those where only a few people meet, always in prayer and in love. Sometimes they are those who are struggling to make ends meet, and sometimes they are those that everyone looks down upon because they are unable to increase the attendance of their church. Perhaps they are the ageing church down the road.
On the other hand, just because your church is big or growing, does not mean that it is necessarily faithful (which I fear is the case in many churches in our day). It could be that the preachers there are speaking what men want to hear, it is after all what the Bible says in 2 Timothy 4:3:
“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear.”
Surely they are doing something wrong! They are small for a reason! Perhaps not, the gospel after all offends, and we can do all we can, but if people do not want to listen, they won’t. Sometimes God won’t melt the hearts of stone, and that is the truth. Nevertheless, that small church should always be crying out for revival, for new people, for growth and for people to be saved. A small church that does this, constantly in prayer with our Father, one that desires revival and one that remains faithful is more powerful than a church that is huge but has no word, greater than one that attracts crowds but has none of the Lord’s saving power in its preaching.
This is not against Big Churches
Don’t get me wrong here, big churches are not bad; indeed there are many which God has blessed massively and are true to his word. But what I am attacking is our attitude. Judging our faithfulness by our membership. Big churches have a responsibility, to help those small churches, to encourage them and in some cases support them, always in prayer! I know our attitude can be sometimes, ‘well they are small because they are ‘old fashioned’ or that they are all ‘old’’. Do not forget God can use anything and anyone. Support them in prayer rather than boast about your own situation.
Encouragement for the small church
For the small church, what we should always focus on is prayer, living close to our God. The church does need to be an active church even if it is only something small. It has to be involved with its community in any means it can be. But we in a way, cannot do anything about it, if we can do all that we can do, then the only thing left to do is to give it all to God. Remember He remains faithful to us, even when we are not faithful to Him. Remember that He will NEVER forsake us or leave us. Know that our God is with us, and just believe that God will use you, whoever you are, to do amazing things for His kingdom.
Numbers do not matter. I don’t care if your church has 1 person, 10 people, 100 people, and 1000 people, so what? What matters more is how faithful is the church? What is more important is how many live close to the Lord, what is your church’s prayer meeting like? Small and big churches alike, these questions address us all. So stop asking us small churches how big we are and why we think we are such a size, instead greet us like brothers, like sisters and join with us in prayer. Pray for revival, and pray for his kingdom to come!